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Friday
08Jan2010

Looking For Inspiration in All the Right Places

Yes, I have the winter blues.  It seems that the more I am cooped up in the house, the more dissatisfied I am with my surroundings.  So while I wait for the spring thaw, I am looking for ways to beautified my interiors.  I have been drawing lots of decorating inspiration from Houzz.  Just browsing through the beautiful photography on this website lifts my spirits.  Plus, if you sign up for an account you can create 'idea books' for future reference or to share.  Beautiful and well organized...oh the inspiration...

Friday
01Jan2010

Happy New Year

Happy New Year.

It must be a sign of getting older but I seem to find myself spending more time reflecting on years past than on eagerly anticipating the upcoming year.  Something about the number 2010 makes me reflect over the last couple of decades in five year increments:

  • 5 years ago (2005): I trained for and completed my first (and only) marathon.
  • 10 years ago (2000): I welcomed my second child and moved in the KC area
  • 15 years ago (1995): I completed my dissertation and moved to NC
  • 20 years ago (1990): I moved from the Midwest to Miami to start grad school
  • 25 years ago (1985): Welcomed adulthood and began planning for the adventure that would quickly take up 25 years.
Friday
18Dec2009

Using Down Time During Winter Break Creatively

Winter break begins today.  I can't believe how fast the last few months have flown by.  The other day I joked with another SAHM whose youngest also started kindergarten about how now that the kids are in school all day we never see each other.  And I thought I would have so much time on my hands.  HA!

Now, I have been busy getting back into career mode.  No job at this point, but spending a lot of time researching, networking, and refining what I want to do when I grow up (or at least in the next year). 

But the next few weeks, I am going to enjoy taking time off from 'constant homework badgering' (my oldest is in junior high...need I say more?).  The extracurricular activities also slow down, and thus so does my time as a taxi cab driver.

I'm not much of a 'crafty' mom, but I am looking forward to a few fun projects with the kids...1) making a gingerbread house (using an all inclusive kit, of course), and 2) turning my six and nine year olds' great story telling imagination into their first books using Tikatok.  I have been wanting to try this out for awhile and now will have the time to help my guys give it a whirl.  This service provides story prompts for creative minds but with the flexibility to tell their own stories as well as plenty of space for custom illustrations that can be uploaded.  Books can be professionally published at a reasonable cost as well as downloaded into PDF ebooks for a small fee.  If the test drive goes well, I am thinking about having the kids collaborate on book to give their Papa for his 70th birthday.  What grandparent wouldn't love that?!

Friday
11Sep2009

Pre-historic (I Mean Pre-Digital) Photos

We were not the first to get on the digital camera bandwagon.  With a nice Canon 35mm camera we captured our family memories quite adequately until 2003 (the year our youngest was born).  Since that time I have amassed literally thousands of pictures of my family and have them well organized using Picasa on my desktop (and remote backup). 

But what about the boxes of pre-2003 photos I have?  Of the most important to me are the pictures of my first two children as infants.  I love having creating photo books, gifts, etc from my digital images and want the same flexibility (and piece of mind) of having them digitally archived.  I have been struggling with how best to go about it.  My options are to scan the photos and/or negatives myself or pay a service to do it for me.  Well, scanning myself would be way too time consuming and not produce great quality since I don't have a professional scanner.  In terms of services, most are rather expensive, especially if getting prints scanned.  But I found a partial solution.  Costco's photo department will scan negatives (not prints) and put them on CD for $2.99/per roll (approximately 40 images).  I tried it out with a sampling for about 300 negatives and I was pretty pleased.  Granted I don't have the negatives of  all my pre-2003 prints, but I have quite a few and I am taking them in today.  I figure this will give me a good start on bringing those photos into the modern age.

Thursday
03Sep2009

Where Does the Day Go?

As I mentioned in my previous post, I have entered a new phase of family life...all of my kids are in school.  I recall many a hectic day of trying to keep my youngest entertained while maintaining duties as COO (Chief Operating Officer) of our household, thinking, "wow, when the kids are all in school I will get so much more done."  Well, it has been just under two weeks of school day bliss and I have to say that I am quickly identifying with my friends that warned me of how fast the days blaze by.

In reality, my 3+ year sabbatical from my professional life will be coming to an end sometime in the near future.  So in an effort to maximize this window of opportunity of having all the kids in school while remaining unemployed, I decided I better come up with a strategy.  And of course it involves making lists (my favorite past time).

  1. Identifying My Goals:  Instead of my usual MO of writing down every last item I want to accomplish, I decided to start by taking a big step back and really think about my goals.  I decided to frame these in terms of what I want to do over the next few months and tried to specific while paring them down until they were truly achievable.  For example, instead 'get rid of giggle on underside of arms by doing pilates', I reframed this as 'try pilates by taking 4 classes at local recreation center'.  Instead of a general goal of 'read more', I identified 4 books I really want to read.
  2. Creating a General To Do List:  This list compromises things that need to get done in the next few weeks.  I jot down things as they come up so not to forget them.
  3. Creating Must Do Today List:  As everyone knows, real life seems to get in the way of our goals.  So I created a 'Must Do Today' list.  These items come from the General To Do list.  I try to keep must dos to just 3 or 4 items and to things that really MUST be done today.  If nothing absolutely must get done on a particular day, then nothing gets put on the list.

How I am trying to use these lists:

  • Each morning I review my Goals.  I just want to keep these fresh in my mind and keep me from doing things just to feel 'busy' but that don't bring me closer to my goals.  I then decide how much time I can spend on my goals based on what is going on that day.  Each day, I allot no fewer than 15 minutes to my goals.
  • Next, I review my General To Do list and determine if there is anything I MUST get done today. 
  • Finally, I organize my time into 15-30 minute segments.  So whether it is completing routine household chores like tidying up the house, or working on my Must Do Today List, I work in short increments of time.  After my allotted time is up, I reevaluate to determine if I can move on to a 'goal oriented' task.  Again, this is my way of staying focused on what matters most to me and of preventing getting side tracked with things that 'would be nice to have done' but are not of high enough priority to be classified as one of my Goals.        

(Having trouble defining your goals, check out this post.  Also, here are a couple of posts from Zen Habits that I found helpful when thinking about making the most of my newly found free time (here and here).

 

P.S. I am still using and loving Google Tasks for all of my list making adventures.

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